要使婚姻长久,就需克服自我中心意识。
I don't compete with anyone but myself.
死者既已安葬,活着的人就不要长久地哭泣,而应该尽快做事,每个人都做自己能做的事,并用来使大家互利。 
The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.