Between the wish and the thing the world lies waiting.

释义：处理事情时，往往因为急躁冒进而导致失败；思考问题时，常常由于从容不迫才能有所收获。做事不可急于求成，唯有冷静沉稳、深思熟虑，才能有效解决问题、达成目标 。

I don’t know that women are always rewarded for being charming. I think they are usually punished for it.

优化是在给定约束条件下做出最佳决策的艺术。