You should write, first of all, to please yourself. You shouldn't care a damn about anybody else at all.
I truly believe that women should be financially independent from their men. And let's face it, money gives men the power to run the show. It gives men the power to define value. They define what's sexy. And men define what's feminine. It's ridiculous.
You have to be able to admit when you’re wrong and get out of a losing position quickly. The worst thing you can do is hold onto a losing trade hoping it will come back.