你无法控制别人的感受，但你可以控制自己如何回应他们。
Out of my own great woe I make my little songs.
How often do we tell our own life story? How often do we adjust, embellish, make sly cuts? And the longer life goes on, the fewer are those around to challenge our account, to remind us that our life is not our life, merely the story we have told about our life.
释义：别人称赞我，不值得高兴；别人批评我，也不值得生气。
Lolita， light of my life， fire of my loins. My sins， my soul. Lo Lee TA.