The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.
Should you find yourself contorting to fit a system, dear reader, stop and ask if it's truly you that must change or the system.
La vie est une rose dont chaque pétale est une illusion et chaque épine une réalité.
The body achieves what the mind believes.
不要只是梦想远大,要行动远大。