In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

"Books are the bridges that connect us to the unknown."

仰望星空，而不是低头看脚。试着理解你所看到的，并思考是什么让宇宙存在。保持好奇心。

当痛苦找到意义时，它就不再是痛苦。

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.

永远做你自己，展现自己，相信自己，不要去模仿别人的成功特质。

Don't try to win a friend by presenting gifts。You should instead contribute your sincere love and learn how to win others 'heart through appropriate ways.