Love is free; to promise for ever to love the same woman is not less absurd than to promise to believe the same creed.
Your self-worth is determined by you. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are.
所以,天地不夸耀自己的明亮,大水不夸耀自己的清澈,大火不夸耀自己的炎烈,有德之君不夸耀自己德行的高远,这样才能做众人的领袖。