You think it will never happen to you, that it cannot happen to you, that you are the only person in the world to whom none of these things will ever happen, and then, one by one, they all begin to happen to you, in the same way they happen to everyone else.
你以为这些永远不会发生在你身上，不可能发生在你身上，你是世界上唯一一个这些事都不会发生的人，然后，一件接一件，它们开始发生在你身上，就像发生在其他所有人身上一样。
【译文】 孔子说：“君子坦荡而不骄狂，小人骄狂而不坦荡。”
The best way to predict your future is to create it.
我不是一个喜欢回头看的人。我总是向前看。
The best way to predict the future is to create it.
We are not separate observers of the universe, but active participants in its unfolding.
