我学会了你不能控制一切，但你可以控制你如何应对它。
I've learned that you can't control everything, but you can control how you react to it.
我的话在她心中：冰冷的抛光石头沉入沼泽。
礼义廉耻，可以用来要求自己，不可用来要求别人。要求自己则能少犯过失，要求别人则难以与人和睦相处，难以与他人相处就不合乎处世之道。所以君子只严格要求自己，小人则对别人求全责备。
When you are young spend at least 6 months to one year living as poor as you can， owning as little as you possibly can， eating beans and rice in a tiny room or tent， to experience what your “worst” lifestyle might be. That way any time you have to risk something in the future you won’t be afraid of the worst case scenario.
知识是人类的最高财富，而分享知识则是最高的慷慨。