I've learned that you can't control everything in life, and that's okay.
我了解到你无法控制生活中的一切,这没关系。
古代学者在内心涵养上下功夫,所以表现在外表上便是德高望重的标志;今天的学者在外表上下功夫,对于内心涵养,则显出实际德行的缺陷。
Water runs dry but hearts never do
I'm not a person who thinks that everything happens for a reason, but I do believe that if you work hard and stay true to yourself, good things will come.