找到自己的最好方法是在为他人服务中迷失自己。
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.
任何事都要争先的人,必定有人挤兑他;任何事都要争胜的人,必定遭人打击。
Nobody wants to be this strenuous thing: an individual; it demands an effort.