You think it will never happen to you, that it cannot happen to you, that you are the only person in the world to whom none of these things will ever happen, and then, one by one, they all begin to happen to you, in the same way they happen to everyone else.
身体记得心灵遗忘的东西。
The first time you share tea with a Balti, you are a stranger. The second time, you are an honored guest. The third time you become family.