I think the most important thing is to be honest with yourself and with others.
Writing is a way of talking without being interrupted.
A real decision is measured by the fact that you’ve taken a new action. If there’s no action, you haven’t truly decided.
If memories had a smell, it would be the fragrance of camphor, sweet and secure, like clearly remembered happiness, sweet and melancholy, like forgotten sorrow.
有明确身份认同的人知道他们是谁以及他们代表什么。他们有强烈的自我意识,不容易被他人左右。