获得朋友的唯一方法就是先成为朋友。

When I stand before thee at the day's end thou shalt see my scars and know that I had my wounds and also my healing.

宁可做一个不满足的人，也不愿做一个满足的猪；宁可做苏格拉底不满足，也不愿做一个愚蠢的满足者。