The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.

The most painful state of being is remembering the future, particularly the one you'll never have.

是人创造了宗教，而非宗教创造了人。

天下的道理，归根结底只有一个。