应对生活的唯一方法是接受它的本来面目。
The only way to deal with life is to accept it as it is.
"The world is full of obvious things which nobody by any chance ever observes."
The world owes all its onward impulses to men ill at ease; the happy man inevitably confines himself within ancient limits.
小人办事，处理的原则是私利，合于私利的就看作利，违背私利的就看作害；君子办事，衡量的标准是道义，合于道义的就看作利，违反道义的就看作害。