Freedom was a thing that shifted as you looked at it, the way a forest is dense with trees up close but from outside, from the empty meadow, you see its true limits. Being free had nothing to do with chains or how wide your cage was.
自由是一种当你看着它时会变化的东西,就像森林近距离看时树木茂密,但从外面,从空旷的草地上看,你看到它的真正界限。自由与锁链或你的笼子有多宽无关。
Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
保持虚心才能了解实情,保持冷静才能判断行动是否正确