记忆是一件奇怪的事情。它的运作方式并不像我想象的那样。我们习惯于把它想象成相机或录音机，但它根本不是那样的。它更像是一个画家。它创造了一幅画，但这幅画并不总是相同的。
"Memory is a strange thing. It doesn't work like I thought it did. We are so used to thinking of it as a camera or a tape recorder, but it's not like that at all. It's more like a painter. It creates a picture, but it's not always the same picture."
It has done me good, because of the color of the wheat fields. Go and look again at the roses. You will understand now that yours is unique in all the world。
智慧是对痛苦的理解，对喜悦的感激，以及对过去的接受。
"The power of a story lies not in its truth, but in its ability to connect us to the human experience."
"To understand a person, you must first understand the stories they tell themselves."
When someone is nasty， rude， hateful， or mean with you， pretend they have a disease. That makes it easier to have empathy toward them which can soften the conflict.
To be happy is to be able to become aware of oneself without fright.
建筑不是关于形式，而是关于生活。
Trust your roots, but don’t be afraid to branch out.