译文：广泛听取意见才能明辨是非，偏听偏信则会昏聩。强调决策需兼收并蓄。

The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it's not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are able to love, to share, to go into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.

我们越理解个别事物，我们就越理解上帝。