The stranger is close to us, insofar as we feel between him and ourselves common features of a national, social, occupational, or generally human, nature. He is far from us, insofar as these common features extend beyond him or us, and connect us only because they connect a great many people.
这些建议都不是定律。它们更像是帽子。如果其中一顶不合适的话,就试试另一顶。
Man is free at the moment he wishes to be.