我们感知世界的方式是由我们的期望塑造的，通常，我们看到的就是我们期望看到的。
The way we perceive the world is shaped by our expectations, and often, what we see is what we expect to see.
晏子春秋
听听他们的言论，看看他们的实际行为，考察他们的能力，谨慎的授予官职。
If you can avoid seeking approval of others， your power is limitless.
You're different by nature. You don't have to hide.