80%的人生决定性时刻发生在35岁之前。
80% of life's most defining moments take place by age 35.
I don’t think of myself as a writer who happens to be black. I think of myself as a black writer.
Le ciel est, par-dessus le toit, / Si bleu, si calme!
注：孤独不代表寂寞，孤独者是自成体系的
数据库的真正力量在于它能够连接不同的信息片段并揭示以前隐藏的模式。
在我早期的职业生涯中，我一直在问：我如何治疗、治愈或改变这个人？现在我会这样表述这个问题：我如何提供一种关系，让这个人可以利用它来实现自己的个人成长？
Every tear is a waterfall.
One often calms one's grief by recounting it.