译文：议论别人的不足之处，这不能叫做直爽，帮助别人做坏事，这不能叫做义气。赏析：闲谈莫论人非，对别人的缺点和不足揪着不放，这不是一个智者所为，帮助别人做坏事，不是善举，而是助纣为虐。

I want you to know， it isn’t always clear in the beginning because as I said I had been on television since I was 19 years old. But around ’94 I got really clear. So don’t expect the clarity to come all at once， to know your purpose right away.

I think that the most important thing is to be true to yourself and to be honest with yourself.