心智倾向于将物体感知为组织良好的模式,而不是单独的组成部分。
解释:将自己的利益给了别人,别人也将会把实惠返回给自己;将自己的怨恨发泄给别人,祸害也将会降临到自己身上。
Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.
自信不是天生的,是慢慢培养出来的。
我们不仅仅是信息的被动接受者;我们积极地构建我们对世界的理解。