宜安静,少说话,从容不迫,严谨及俭约,这些都是监督自己的良言。避多欲,盲动,心不专一,以此避免自己的缺失。在实践这些修养的过程中,能体会到恒字的秘诀。而在不间断的过程里,能体验出渐字的秘诀。
办丧事虽有一定的礼仪,但还是以哀痛为本。 
The secret to success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.
Your 20s are the most defining decade of your life.