Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.
要在准备好时做出决定,而不是在压力之下。或为了达到个人目的,或因为内部斗争,或因为一些外部需求,其他人总会催促你做出决策。但几乎每次你都可以这么说:“我需要更多的时间来考虑这个问题。我想清楚了再回复你。”即使是在最艰难、最令人不快的情况下,这种策略也非常有效。
人生没有绝对的答案,只有不断的尝试。
如果你认为一个人的本质是好的,就要随时为这个人提供帮助,即使其他人都离他而去。任何人都可能陷入困境。在别人需要的时候,一个偶然的善意行为就会改变他的生命轨迹,造就意想不到的友谊或忠诚。
To catch a husband is an art; to hold him is a job.
我写歌是为了记住,也是为了忘记。