在风格问题上，随波逐流；在原则问题上，坚如磐石。

现代生活的最大悲剧是我们拥有我们想要的一切，但没有我们需要的东西。

你越是否认某件事，它就会引起越多的关注。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.