In my early professional years I was asking the question: How can I treat, or cure, or change this person? Now I would phrase the question in this way: How can I provide a relationship which this person may use for his own personal growth?

The method of psychology must be rigorously empirical.

You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.

世界不是它看起来的样子；它是我们相信的样子。