To lose one parent may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness.
The only thing that could make us what we are would be a perception of something like us.
"In the end, we are all just stories, told by others and ourselves."
是因为他们行事合理,行事合理来自于受到的熏染得当。 
译文:总想着对自己有利,反而会害了自己;能够屈居人下,终有一天能居于人上。赏析:凡事多替别人着想,就是给自己积福,如果我们只谋求自己的个人利益,必将招致祸患。我们身处困境,要学会忍耐,懂得发愤图强,终有一天会令别人刮目相看。