置身于是非之外，评断是非才能客观；置身于利害之外，才能看清利害的变化。

And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.

不管战略多美妙,偶尔看看结果如何很重要。

"The past is always tense, the future perfect."

一个好故事可以改变我们看待世界的方式。