I don’t think you should spend much time being unhappy about the bad breaks. You get a lot of them, but you also get a lot of good ones. The thing to do is just to maximize your odds of using the good ones and minimizing the effects of the bad ones.
"The best way to forget something is to remember it."
The concept of loss aversion explains why we often prefer avoiding losses over acquiring gains.
When you can do the common things of life in an uncommon way, you will command the attention of the world.