I've always been interested in the human condition and what makes people tick.
The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.
婚姻好比鸟笼,外面的鸟想进 进不去;里面的鸟儿想出出不来。