牛马生着四足，这是天性；给马戴上笼头，给牛穿上鼻绳，就是人为。所以说，不要人为毁灭天性，不要用故意造作去毁灭天命，不要以德行去为名利殉葬，谨守天道勿使丧失，这就叫返归本真。

"You can't control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. Let go a little and just let life happen."

人生中80%最重要的时刻发生在35岁之前。