所以君子严于律己、宽以待人,而平庸的人却宽以待己、严于律人。
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.
真相比小说还要不可思议。
相关性和因果关系之间的区别不仅仅是学术上的——它可能具有深远的政策影响。
"The beauty of cinema is that it allows us to live a thousand lives in one lifetime."
We are all stories in the end, just make it a good one.