La memoria es un arma cargada de futuro.

有时你必须在内心经历某种死亡，才能从自己的灰烬中重生，相信自己，爱自己，成为一个新的人。

君子会因人恭维赞美自己而疏远他，也会因对自己之言劝谏和他成为亲密的朋友。

我相信这样的地图学——被自然标记，而不仅仅是在地图上像富人名字一样标记自己。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.