Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
The world is full of doors, and every door is a choice.
揣摩自己的身心,于百年后,将被后人安放在什么位置上?省察自己的面目,在历史上,和哪一位古代人物相似?
The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there.