And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.

How wonderful that we have met with a paradox. Now we have some hope of making progress.

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.

译文：事物众多而智慧有限，有限的智慧不能遍知所有的事物，所以应该顺应事物的本性来治理它们。

Any woman who understands the problems of running a home will be nearer to understanding the problems of running a country.