喜欢说话而又不恰当，不如少说话为好。博学多识但不知道反省自己，一定会出问题。孔子说“言寡尤，行寡悔，禄在其中矣” ，言语上减少过失，行为上减少悔恨，多反省自己，慎言慎行，成功就不会远了。

Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything—all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure—these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.