每个人似乎都对其他人应该如何生活有清晰的想法，但对自己如何生活却没有。
Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own.
讲好故事的关键是在具体中找到普遍真理。
是不失败,其次则是败了却还有办法成功,这才叫善于用人。