将目标设的极具野心的好处在于，这样会设定非常高的标准，即使失败，也可能已经是常规意义上的成功。
The advantage of a ridiculously ambitious goal is that it sets the bar very high so even in failure it may be a success measured by the ordinary.
Everything is what it is， and not another thing.
如果他没有伤害我的自尊，我是可以容忍他的傲慢的。
我不是一个放弃自己韧性的人。