Rather than steering your life to avoid surprises， aim directly for them.
与其控制你的生活以避免意外，不如去迎接意外。
All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream.
重要的不是金钱，而是你爱的人。
The older I get, the more I realize that the only thing that matters is to be true to yourself.
"You can't be afraid to fail. It's the only way you succeed."
The most important thing is that we develop an interest in the world and take joy in our fellow human beings.