Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.

心灵是自己的地方，它本身可以把地狱变成天堂，把天堂变成地狱。

最好的建筑既是永恒的，又是及时的。