对性情上了解即是涵养，对每一念头注意提醒就是省察，气质的融汇就是克治。

脆弱不是软弱，而是彻底的诚实。

I must confess that I never could see any beauty in her. Her face is too thin; her complexion has no brilliancy; and her features are not at all handsome. Her nose wants character; there is nothing marked in its lines. Her teeth are tolerable, but not out of the common way; and as for her eyes, which have sometimes been called so fine, I could never see anything extraordinary in them.

爱就是爱去爱爱。