"The past is what you remember, imagine you remember, convince yourself you remember, or pretend to remember."
小小的善举比你可能预期的更能提升你的情绪。
毛毛虫眼中的世界末日,我们称之为蝴蝶。
当一个人开始长得像他的父亲时,他就知道自己正在变老。
"The essence of life is not in the destination, but in the journey itself."
That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.