我不是摇滚明星,我是拥有摇滚明星生活方式的流行歌手。
我们必须接受失望,因为它是有限的,但千万不可失去希望,因为它是无穷的。
Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than the ones you did.So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. (注:这句说话被部分人质疑不是由马克·吐温所说的。)
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great, or do you try something new? Do you make what you know will sell or try something new? Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met? The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive, but aim for 1/3.
The pursuit of happiness is not about feeling good all the time, but about striving toward meaningful goals.
婚姻的快乐完全是机会的问题。