"The only real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes."
"The photograph is just the starting point. The painting is something else entirely."
心理现象是大自然的生存实验。
And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.