Those who do not have power over the story that dominates their lives, the power to retell it, rethink it, deconstruct it, joke about it, and change it as they change, truly are powerless, because they cannot think new thoughts.
爱人者,人恒爱之。你爱敬别人,别人就会爱敬你。你利益别人,别人也会给你带来利益。
The only way to avoid being miserable is not to have enough leisure to wonder whether you are happy or not.