假如孩子们的活动正好和他的内在需求相配合，孩子的表现会让我们他的发展所需。
The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
最成功的产品是那些预见到人们不知道自己有的需求的产品。
如果他们能让你问错问题，他们就不必担心答案了。
The problem is, if you really believe in a society where those who merit to get to the top, get to the top, you'll also, by implication, and in a far more nasty way, believe in a society where those who deserve to get to the bottom also get to the bottom and stay there. I nother words, your position in life comes to seem not accidental, but merited and deserved. And that makes failure seem much more crushing.