There's a real correlation between a society that tells people that they can do anything, and the existence of low self-esteem. So that's another way in which something quite positive can have a nasty kickback. There is another reason why we might be feeling more anxious --about our careers, about our status in the world today, than ever before. And it's, again, linked to something nice. And that nice thing is called meritocracy.
"In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take."
你唯一需要超越的人,是昨天的自己。
过去总是与我们同在,但它不必定义我们的未来。
——温格谈到对他转会策略的一些批评,这是一个经常被谈论的话题,围绕这一点还有最已阵传阿森纳等一些调侃
"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes."