"A journey is just as important as the destination, perhaps more so."

When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions， a few of which I had thought about， some of which I had sort of stumbled on， and many that I had no control over whatsoever.

天下的一切事物不可以没有标准，做人要有做人的标准，即原则；做事要有做事的标准，即规则；治国要有治国的标准，即法则。不遵循一定的标准而能成事者，自古以来是没有的。

小说是讲述真相的谎言，一种比现实本身更真实的谎言。